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TOPmy take on this is that having a genital preference is fine, but it's incredibly unrealistic to expect a trans person to out themselves before even starting a relationship. for all they know, they'll be killed if they just reveal that to someone they don't know.

TOP"But I just prefer certain genitals!" Yes, and I'm sure that absolutely justifies your invasion of my privacy.

TOPThat feeling is equivalent to finding a cockroach in your room late at night while talking to your online friends while playing Terraria on your Switch.